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I’m currently in my 4 year relationship with him and its gotten worse. Show that you are not afraid and that you don’t care for whatever he’s going to do. Those type of men will try to destroy your life for rest your life my ex has destroyed my life so much and now I’m trying to just fix it. If you’re googling this type of behavior and coming across narcissism, don’t ignore!! I wonder if it’s me? She is absolutely relentless, and I have not been able to stop her. You can learn to turn away from these attacks and move on using your energy for things that fulfill your live in a positive way. He eventually did get counseling. A Psychopath doesn’t need people. It is the only thing that works – and it’s better than the sweetest revenge you could ever get. They hear nothing but their own voices. she took but never gave. I stopped him and didn’t respond but was polite and then told him I had to go as I was busy, he still tried asking me stuff about my holiday… I was polite but said I had to go. I wish you all the best. He has controlled and manipulated me for the past 10 yrs. He caused fights with my friends. It is day by day, and often minute by minute, to keep focused on moving forward and away from the madness. The insufficient funds checks and charges began to be more common in our main account. again!! I returned home after a long day at work to an empty house. they will waste yours away with time. You do so much for them for them to find excuses why they can’t get a job and pay their bills,holidays, place of our own etc you know pleasures of being an item but they accept late night calls from women and it’s not their fault they just helping a “friend” out who’s ill down and out so you keep quiet eventhough they know you ain’t happy and say just cos I’m not responding how you want me too you make a fuss so I leave and every time he would plead to take me back they love hearing you cry it’s like they wanna keep you on repeat like a record. We talked and he walked me to the car. I was in horrific pain for 48 hours but I have not given in and don’t plan to. I sought help from a therapist as I recognized something is keeping me from going no contact…fear…low self esteem…whatever. And his number? All re connections start somewhere. All that will happen is more abuse and you getting dragged down. They really don’t seems to get it do they?!? I wish our paths had never crossed. The amount of crazy is unreal. He never paid for anything at all for our 3 children or living and he has 2 jobs 4 cars etc. My therapist observed that I had been hoping and waiting for him to change. He’s contacted my family (some of whom still think he’s so great). The thing too, is that FB is so juvenile when it comes to advertising your relationships. Then he started stealing things, but swearing on his kids life , that he would never steal. She’s hellbent on not giving closure to me like some evil grimlin. “I will be here when your ready to come home baby. I’ve lost my job amd had to move back home last year when he digarded me like a piece of crap. He would tell me how it was all my fault that I couldn’t get my daughters and him to become family-oriented.. And that he was gonna find someone who was gonna love him the way he wanted and deserved to be loved since I was incapable of it. This relationship has to end. He said he was home sleeping, I drove past his house and saw he was not there. Today is day 1 of no contact. The highs were really high, like nothing I ever experienced but the lows were extremely low and not worth it. I know I deserve better and I’m tired of letting someone make me feel different. i have caught him with 3 diff women and , two months ago i spied on him through the window and saw he was laying on bed with 2 phones calling me of one of them and texting other women with anothe ph . Narcissists are massively insecure and fear rejection, Psychopaths aren’t insecure and they don’t care if you leave them. THE THEORY IS ACTUALLY BASED ON PHARAMONES.. Joe and Kamala will help heal this racist nation. Like for one example after seeing her bf at her place, I told her that if she is seeing or dating someone else, then Im happy for her and we can stay as friends(my mistake) , she responded by saying that she is not dating anyone yet which ofc is a lie and I ve finally realized that I had seen way so much more than enough after her constant lying that I came to a point in my life that enough is enough. Thats my story and many more just like that. He has never put his hands on me in a bad way, but from researching It could happen. It’s true. 1st time it happened I was in a very dark place but managed to pull myself out. How sick are these people. Looking back now, I think there was another girl. And having no respect he ceases to love, and in order to occupy and distract himself without love he gives way to passions and coarse pleasures, and sinks to bestiality in his vices, all from continual lying to other men and to himself. Yeah, she suddenly started taking anti depressants and going to a psychiatrist which diagnosed her with malignant sociopathic narcissism that falls on the very far extreme end of the spectrum. Guess what? I’ve been in a relationship w my N for almost 4 years and in those 4 years my life declined in every way. Unbeknownst to me, she had given my son some money to stay in a hotel with his girlfriend on the beach for the day, while she and my daughter cleaned the house out, by hiring a moving van. I went 100% NC last year for 8 months, then let him back in this year, sure he was ok to begin with then the mask slipped a couple of times, then it slipped again and I hated the feelings I had when this happened. I have lost homes, businesses, had 5 cars vandalized to keep me powerless, my children abducted,( I got one back) my pets have been murdered. My brother stopped talking to me 10 years ago. She started to pursue me just after I got out of rehab. He was determined to ruin my life for leaving him. I have been married to. You may have thought you were getting to know each other through the exchange of information, but really what was going on was that your narcissist was engaging in something much more sinister. don’t be fooled! You have to ask yourself why you are doing no contact. Just said do you love me and can we stop fighting. You don’t have to wait for the next shoe to drop and then try and untangle and explain the 20 balls of tangled yarn the Narc. I’m having heart problems from it all and I’m in my thirties and stay in good shape. Lol. Today marks 1 year exactly of having no contact with my 6 year relationship he comes to me like a knight in shining armour but I was introduced to much drama over the years we just battled through his problems one by one his excuses one by one I thought that’s what couples do but when it comes to my needs and wants he always had an excuse. So glad I found this. I’ve been told everything under the sun by my ex N. I know it’s hard. That’s exactly what he does.. he won’t let me go. Then he started emailing. I deleted it immediately, but I got the same awful feeling deep down that I worked so long to get over and it’s been on my mind all day. After 13 years of this I finally realized he was a narcissist and none of the past was ever my fault when he would leave. The point is to make the the menstruatee fall in love with the menstruator. I was in an emotionally and sexually abusive relationship with a narc, for much too long. I wish I’d gotten out then. Now I work on myself to have all I need inside me. It has been long strides of feeling happy again met by clouds of static and confusion – he tried to take a loan out in my name so I felt I needed to break contact. I still can’t believe when I read things like this article how it reinforces all that has gone on as a narcissistic attack. He claimed he stopped seeing her when he found me because he wanted to see where we would go. I learned the unknown call was him trying to contact me w/ his new #. Every cell in my body wants to tell him to screw off because I am a stubborn, strong woman who sticks up for herself (now), but I know I can’t do it. It’s a tough road. He doesn’t want to be here, it just looks good on his resume of bull shit I’ve been looking this subject up all weekend and here it is. He denied over and over again that he ever lied or did anything wrong, ever and was even taking swings at me verbally. I don’t think I want to have a romantic relationship again. He expected for me to help him with his house because he expected for me to do stuff for him in return of what he did for me. Thank heavens for this site. Do you expect me to turn my back on a friend when they need my help? My situation has brought me to my knees in heartache. And that’s the best! 5 yrs. at 2:12am, then at 2:46 am , ” oh yeah, that’s nice..really…. Becomes offended easily when you make normal and natural inquiries and may demand to know why you are checking up on him or her. It’s been a year and a half since absolute No Contact, no reaction, no word from my side. this is the man i have been dealing with for quile long. Your message helped me really see it. And, usually the treatment of you gets worse each time you let him back in. The last time I slept with him he went off inside me and pretended he pulled out. Once i woke up and saw that all the pushing buttons the crap was all done on purpose my getting over it was rapid it meant that it had nothing to do with me and by the way we could be anyone we are not special mine well not mine but this one was jealous of me and i didnt know until tbe end his self hatred and self loathing was so deep . The idealization/love-bombing phase, while fun, didn’t last more than about 5-6 weeks. The person could have been emotionally unavailable and not a Narcissist, then something happened and he decided to grow up and change – or the reason for his emotional unavailability no longer exists. I just don’t give a darn about life any longer. This is a game and your Narcissist is only interested in winning. He is my first love and he has broken yp with me frequently. They only change long enough to get what they want. MAINTAIN NO CONTACT IF you ever want your life back. I was crushed. Then if she shows up at my house just call the police to tell her to leave. I didn’t feel bad because after we talked for hours and once again I felt he could change and be the man I wanted. The Voodoo spells are one of the best spells.These spells will work for you to do anything for you. Everyday I try to just keep focused and try not to think about everything becasue to be honest when you in releationship like that it hunts you and it’s hard not to think about all you been through. DO. Im tryin myself to understand how narcissists work as iv just been through a similar ordeal. If a Narcissist pulls the lever and gets what he wants all the time, he’ll pull it whenever he has a desire to. You even begin to question the sad stories he told you about he exes, how they hurt him, how he just wants real love, honest connection, how he feels your connection is so special, what he’s always been looking for, how lucky he is you’re even available and that he got you. I know I am supposed to separate it, but I just don’t know how to do it. He knew it too….he even said. He was addicted to pain pills, I was the only sober person he knew … could I please let him stay? I isolate myself at home, cry a lot, it’s hard and hurts so much. This is such a great article. What is the difference between a sociopath and a narcissist? I am just writing this to get it out of my system. I ignored. I stupidly agreed. I so needed to see that today. He is now 62 yrs old of course am way jounger than him , He is still pretty active sexually and, now starting to have Difficulty being able to have sex with that being said lets say. If it was a smaller amount, I’d let it go. Subscribe to our mailing list and receive our weekly posts right to your inbox. Any advice? I wish I could win the lottery if only for that. Hi Alisha. So If your guy is constantly seeking approval, looking for ego strokes and needing people to puff him up he’s a Narcissist. I not only lost her, but our friends also. And what do you know the next night I met to talk with him. played me against another woman. He told me he had been “awful” (still refused to admit he was lying tho) and that he just really “missed me” when I basically asked him what the heck he wanted from me. I had no idea how manipulative he was being. Thats all that matters. Fast forward a year into a half the relationship, I had been isolated from all my friends because he hated them all. I decided to not open the card either and also return it to her. I have not been perfect so I don't expect you to be either." I have put boundaries in place like crazy, but inevitably we overlap at kids’ games or when we must parent together. And while I enjoy it, I still have that nagging longing inside of me. Of course I hadn’t and though I had remembered it was his birthday I didn’t let him know that. I’ve written a few blogs on it. I oretty much have no friends left which to him is my fault. As I had seen him earlier in the shop. I know exactly what they are looking for and they won’t get it from me–been down that road. Bless you all who are going through this. What is wrong with me to be attracted to these men? If anyone need someone to talk to feel free to reach out becasue I feel everyone that been in this situation needs someone to talk to and vent. He had this grand plan to screw me over once again for the same reason (I wasn’t paying enough attention to him) The recordings were so devastating to listen to. Save yourself. Had the revelation about 48 hours ago. So pathetic! When the abuse starts again it’s a living hell every time and it goes on for months or until I get to a place where I’m forced to be fed up again. Yes, the repeated attempts to win you over continue–until the N realizes that you are a highly diminished supply and start to seek out other more lucrative supply. Absolutely so true that I broke out laughing, but it is also dead serious because that is exactly how it works and I can see how it will end if I bite–right back to the way things were. You have some really wonderful insights! OMG …the “conversation” in the article is exactly the one me and my ex-narc had . The experience was helpful for me in reconciling some of my issues with my mother, and helping me understand her better. It’s not anything other than him trying to win. Sometimes it just hours, sometimes it’s days but it’s been to the point where he’s gone 2 weeks without talking to me. May be if u know there is no hope for them to change and to know that they r not genuine in what they say , this will make u feel better and stronger I dated my narc for 6 months and it was a casual relationship, which I never would’ve thought in the beginning because he love bombed the crap out of me and said he wanted all the same things I did. Bless you all. And of course her mother and aunt removed items of furniture that they would take out of state to be given to my wife’s father. I have experienced everything in this article too. Didn’t talk to me for 12 hours. I’m trying NC. However i feel i am done with him Lord willing in the name of Jesus Christ am done. This is the way things are. CHANGE. So sad but relieved to know what “it” is. The insults came and went, and so did the love bombings. Have id one the wrong with the phone?! He changed, he knew he had me. Her latest attempts have been to text my husband while he’s at work, long drawn-out begging for me to get help from a Christian counselor and quoting Bible verses, saying I need help for my bitterness, etc. I keep telling him to leave me alone but like this article points out he knows exactly how to get me to break. I want him to regret and feel the terrible pain he has put me through. In my mind I asked myself .. Who says that??? They do exactly what you tell them NOT to do. Being in a relationship with the partner of your choice is difficult, and keeping him around you for a long time is much more difficult. I caught her in so many lies. LOVE YOURSELF! The day after the abuse incident he texted me and said”I’ve done awful things, I’m going straight to hell!” For example, when I bought my house he had bought some fruit trees, garden lights, and a bed for my daughter, he fixed my broken stove for me which I was so thankful and grateful for. But, always remember: If he comes to know that you were only playing mind games with him, then he … Saying I’m at a business meeting. It has been 2 months since I broke up with my ex girlfriend..( I am a female). Thank you! Aka drinking with his friends at kona grill. In fact, it will be easier for him to abuse you again because if you go back then it tells him that you’re willing to put up with it. We are not welcomed in the house that he pays the mortgage on. I’m just another girl on the list of failed relationships he will have throughout his life. This is speculation, but it seems clear that their relationship is a little beyond professional. She had lied to him and me, so again Im so done w/ her and moved on and feel alot better. That’s when you finally stop hearing from them, but they will still occasionally dial your number in error. Always building me up to tare me down again. So in a sense, it actually helps my recovery. token him back. Looking forward to starting MY life again…thanks so much! So I deleted him once again off snapchat. He completely shut me out. I was wise to his ways, I had ended the relationship and went No Contact. Is he cheating or not? It will never ever be what YOU want. This is the 6th attempt over those 9 months. What a great article. I want the magic words but they do not exist. Always texting, calling, wanting to see me. When I did this as an exercise during counseling I was able to stand on the other side of the fence if you will, and look at the situation with new eyes. At that point I knew I had to get away and leave this crazy guy alone because he had been telling me lies this whole time. Like the article says, she lured me back one month after she left. Then 20 minutes later she texted asking if I saw the flowers my ex gave her on FB. I would also suggest for you to try for a moment to detach yourself from your personal circumstances and read the post you posted here as if it were a family member or close friend writing you for advice. I would fret terrible as it was such a ‘wonderful relationship’ and we would part over silly misunderstandings. it became more worst than before. I know I have to leave because this relationship is by far the worst one I have ever been in my entire life; it is extremely unhealthy, he is incapable of change, & therefore the relationship has no future. Even now 2 months later, I still find out what he’s been up to, how many women he’s been cheating on me with. They will never be happy with anything in there lives. Moving into a bigger home, started my own business. It’s been 4 weeks, he came to my house and I refused to open the door. This is exactly what my ex narc is doing now. Any change would be temporary and only long enough to suck you back in. While in the store she acted different. He thought me stating the truth was his justification to call me everything under the sun n make up his own bullshit stories I have finally after giving him a taste of his own medicine blocked him everywhere n I mean everywhere every app n every email on my phone on my FB everywhere n I’m soooo relived that I finally see the light. Well once I tried to get away he than destroyed my car and made me lose all my jobs. We have a 4 year old.. It is such a battle… But thank you. I’m reading through all the comments and am amazed at how similar everyone’s experiences are. I love your reply. It’s stupid I know. Although one of the characters is never DESCRIBED as a Narcissist, the behavior patterns scream Narc. Thank you so much for every ones comment, and tragedies. Its been almost 2 years since our breakup and with the help of my counselor who diagnosed my ex gf as a narcissist, I had finally became much stronger after finding that she meets every criteria or trait of a narcissist. I need to put trust in God and not in man. Isolated me from my friends and family and makes me feel like I’m lost without him. What it really is, is an attempt to control you and a complete disregard for your wishes and your boundaries. The thing to remember is that when we go no contact it’s for a very good reason. I enjoyed the high of it all at first but after some time it seemed too practiced. We have no kids together so the balls in my court. Blocking them from every avenue is the only way to move forward and concentrate on you.. Update: Well…he came back tonight… I was watching TV and I heard a truck in my driveway.. Then I heard loud banging on my door..I told him through the door if he didn’t leave I was going to call the police…he said something..then he left..I locked my screen door.. 15 mins later.. Months went pass I began to receive phone calls from another girl saying she was also dating him. But beat up too. this is what i need to read I been with my boyfriend, for 7 yrs, and found out he was married in Mexico he finally told me . Yes, it sounds cold and callous, but it does not matter what they think. Also find a good therapist who is knowledgeable about narcissistic abuse. The whole string of flirtations with girls on social media, the overinflated ego, the berating to me….all ring true. I always answer because a part of me still loves her. Revelation is great – almost 37 years together is a lifetime for some. She has me blocked and still contacts me. But I have plans in place and a good support network of family and friends. I was always be eternally grateful. I’m finding it really hard..the fog finally lifted and I saw my boyfriend for the monster he really is..after going through the cycle of honeymoon period to silent treatment to him leaving them reeling me back in..this man controlled everything in my life..I now have no friends or family to turn to and I’m now financially ruined….but I’m looking forward to a future free from abuse.. So please tell me why WHY. He blames me for everything. I was miserable every single day and night. I pray he will not contact me ever but that hasn’t been the case over the years.. She even had a safe technician get into my safe in order to remove all of my firearms, cameras, etc. Do I have to go about the mean way by just quickly and without warning block her from everything and treat her like an enemy? A month and a half went by with her constantly texting me demanding child support payments even though we were not even divorced. A little tip, you can block from email. Well, I found it telling that he sent a b-day gift to a female friend of his (a harem member–likely an old fuck buddy–he posted this on FB so all could see) which was a shirt from his tattoo parlor (where he got all his lame tattoos). Didnt wish her happy birthday for the first time like I always did nor congratulate her on her graduation from college. Love who you are and where you are at. I got convicted a few days,ago that basically I need to let this man go… all the,way! Don’t think that your different, your not! He chooses to be alone. Thank God I found out before too late. They use people because it amuses them not because they need to. Whenever we finally talk again his apologies are always very veage and not sincere at all. I stuck it out for years, hoping that sweet funny guy was still in there somewhere, but that part of him must have died a long time ago. I’m being pushed to be real nasty and mean about it but I’m doing everything I can to have it end peacefully as possible. At that point, it wasn’t sentimental, or even annoying. I just find him kinda fascinating. I hate that he knows exactly what to say to make me come back to him. I’m not coming back.”. I went no contact w My narc x 18 Mo ago after divorce. And it’s always my fault. He cheated on me once and the second time I still think he did but he’s to this day denied this…. It really is torture. cut these emotional and mental vampires off your life source or they will sick you dry. Great website, thank you. why? We can go on a trip, anywhere you’d like. He is a very evil person. This is spoken to me as well as to you. I was married to a Narcissist for 12 years and finally made the break and started divorce proceedings early last year. One thing you have to be ready to do though in order for no contact to work is – you MUST be ready to let him/her go. I learned a lot from that relationship but one of the most important lessons I learned is to listen to what the people who care about you think. (HOW DID I MISS THIS?- well I was newly sober and dealing with much heavier shit, that I chose to replace with HER! I’ve been trying to stay nc with him for 8 months but keep falling off the wagon. My life changed for the better. I have a lot more social engagements now than ever before. Very nice person. Maybe that’s because you think it’ll help him get a … I still have to see my brother sometimes, at family gatherings, but I ignore him completely. It’s the body’s/mind’s natural response to want to heal itself. Within that time Ive almost lost my house , my car , have had to cash in my daughters college fund , cash in my retirement ( im only 34) but Im a hard worker, and save $. I dumped all the Fly Monkeys (those who’ve bought his lies) within the past 1 + month. I can’t will myself to do it.. 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